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SHOULD WE BREAK UP OR STAY TOGETHER?

 

It’s not something you want to think about, but it flashes across your mind in the heat of an argument.

Fighting and arguing is something that happens more often than not, and when you’re not fighting, it feels like you’re walking on eggshells. Waiting for the next bomb to drop.

It feels scary and embarrassing to talk to anyone about what’s really going on, because it’s so nuanced in personal emotion, how could anyone understand?

All your friends seem to have themselves figured out. They are happy and care-free in their relationships. Would they even comprehend what you’re going through? Probably not. You feel like there must be something wrong with you, if you’re the only ones who can’t figure this relationship thing out.

The thing is you really do love each other. You used to laugh, play, enjoy each other. What happened to that? Now it’s like a subtle tone of voice or comment can ruin an evening. So many evenings ruined. How many more can you take?

You’ve succeeded amazingly in all other areas of your life. You have a great career, so does he. You have ambition, you set goals and you smash them. You are smart. Capable. In every other area of your life. Is there something wrong with you? With him? Are you just not meant to be?

You don’t want to start over. Again. Breakups are hard and what if you end up alone forever? How do you make such a huge decision?

I want to help.

My name is Becky Palmer. I’m an experienced health and relationship coach. I’ll admit, I have a bias. My bias is that you stay together and fight the dragons that have appeared and grown between the two of you. Slay those first. Discover your power. And then if you still want to walk away, I’ll back your desire and support you through a healthy break up.

The first step is to apply for a call with me :
https://app.acuityscheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=13409619&appointmentType=3164623

Tell me your story and we’ll come up with a plan of action: 
a) how to be crazy happy in love together or
b) how to break up in the healthiest way possible

The most important step is making a decision and getting behind it. Making a decision opens up your world of possibilities and makes it more likely that you’ll find exactly what you’re looking for.

Apply for your call today. There isn’t time to waste. This is your life. It’s important. Take action. This is a sign.

Becky Palmer